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25 year old guy dating 19 year old girl
I was 23 when I started dating my 18 year old ex. It had its challanges and the operarive word is ex. That being said were still fast friends, we talk every day, and I cant imagine life without her. I dont see age as a factor so much as personal compatability. Views. Habibi, BA from Microbiology (). There's a 19 year old guy at my workplace and he and I have been flirting together for about the past 6 months. I'm 90% sure he likes me. He is really nice and sweet. I was thinking of asking him out. The company we work for does not prohibit dating amongst co-workers, checked that out so that wouldn't be. theres nothing wrong with this right? i don't think its too big of an age gap.
What would you make of this situation? Woman has known man since he was born. Their parents are best friends and so for years we're practically brought up together. Then aged 9, they went to different schools and had ceased to see each other at all. Aged 27, woman meets the mans sister and they become close. She introduces woman to her brother and after several months there seems to be an attraction from both.
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Woman is in a similar profession to the university course man has just started. Only problem is, while man is very mature, he's only She this web page 27 and 28 in a few weeks.
Wrong on many different levels and an absolute no go? Aibu, to say it is. Why is it wrong? If she's 10 years older and he's only They met a few months ago when he was only It's legal, but I'm not sure that makes it right. But we shall see. He just seems too young for someone soon to be hitting 30! I don't really understand what a woman of nearly 30 would see in a lad barely out of his teens. I can't imagine they have much in common and you think she'd have the maturity and life experience to get that.
I don't see the problem its a bit closed minded to completely write someone off because of an age gap of nine years. I suppose it is a bit strange someone going out with some one they've known since they were born. However they're both legal. A fact not my opinion. So why is it wrong on so many levels.
As long as they're both happy. Not wrong as it stands, unless woman would be his lecturer or something. Ppl would think nothing of the same age gap later in life. My 18yr old cousin recently had a lot of attention from a 29yr old woman. She is the same age as me and I cannot wrap my head around how she can be attracted to someone so much younger.
IMO the older the couple are, any age gaps are not as significant, but to me an 18yo is just a boy. It's a bit ick. Is he your son? Wouldn't be for me, but plenty of 18 year women go out with 28 year old men.
This is no different, and its none of your business. I wouldn't bat an eyelid. They're source adults, it will either work out or it won't. The dating someone you knew as a baby and grew up with from the age of 9 for a while? That bit I find weird. The 18 year old dating a 27 year old though?
That was the most brutal 7 months in my life. If we were both 23 I think he'd find me annoying lol. Now dating my bf who's of course 6 years younger than me, alot of people would question and compare. Seeing how you've married someone 5 years younger I just want to know ur take on it.
At 18 you're a young adult. I personally at 30 cannot ever see myself being interested in an 18 year old.
I'm kinda laughing at the people thinking that 28 and 21 is a big age difference. Great for you man, get some experience. He always wants to go out but Im scared of the looks that we may get in the street.
Even at 15 I could see the vast majority of 18 year olds were hopelessly immature! However, obviously something is working for them. It may last, it may not. But she's in her thirties now and they're still together! I think it's none of your business. There is an age gap between DP and me and I was young but legal when we got together. Funnily enough we came across a lot of judgemental people like you OP too!
I met my dp when he was 18 although we didn't get together until he was 20 That was nearly 5 years ago and we are getting married in the summer. I'm 15 years older than him. Everyone is different and sometimes people just fall for each other. I fought my feelings for dp for a long time because I worried about being judged by society.
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In reality nobody cares and we frequently get told what a lovely couple we are. No, at 27 I wouldn't have been interested in an 18 year old, but I'm struggling to see all these 'many levels of wrong'? I am 33 and recently was dating a man who was When I was 19 I was go here a guy who was I really don't see the problem tbh The school thing is odd, they wouldn't have gone to primary or high school together with that age gap?
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If 2 people want to be together. Good luck trying to stop them. It's not wrong, but at that age an 18 yo lad would have had absolutely zero appeal for me.
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I think you need to explain what levels it's wrong on but yabu I think. Mind your own business! I think there's a bit more to this story OP, do you have some kind of specific concern? I fail to see the problem When I was 18 my boyfriend was 27, we dated for almost 2 years.
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